Friday, October 17, 2008

Wedding bells

Hey there,

Since childhood i used to wonder how will i feel when i will get married to some one.....when i will know that this is person i am going to spend my rest of life with....he is one i was waiting till now...but you know now after knowing all that also I don't know how it feels... seriously...when i started to write blog on how it feels , i am not able to go further than it is mixed feeling. It is excitement as well as anxiousness..... specially in arrange marriages.

I feel that is all about acceptance, I wonder on this magic of arrange marriage.... You don't know a person...you meet him for some time...may be an hour or two ( In my case i got 2 ) and then you have to make decision if you want to spend your entire life with him....once you take this decision ...life becomes really easy... you don't have to judge that person any more neither see any negative qualities....all that you can see is your life partner.......Do we ever think why my mom or Dad is like this .... we can't find any bad qualities in our siblings....We just love our brothers and sisters because they are our bros and sis........ We never get a thought that my parents are not so good looking.........so this arrange marriage also is same........At least in my case it is like that...... Just an acceptance that matches are made in heaven.... and trusting that wonder makes you feel happy..........
For all those who are afraid of arrange marriage ( like I was ) .... don't worry.......... It works :)..........

2 comments:

Ketaki... said...

Exxactly... :) you put it better than I did.. :)

Nightflier said...

happy for you :)
nice post btw !!