Friday, July 24, 2009

Aaamachi na Entry Hay

Do you know what it means - One of the house keeper lady in our office told me this. Actully two lady were discussing on Pinyache pani jya machin madhun yete tyala kay mhanatat.
I was filling my water bottal -
Lady 1 : Madam, Ya machin la kay mhanatat ho
Before i say anything
Lady 2 : Tula ga kay karayachay... un lakhat tar rahnar aahe ka tuzhya?
Lady 1 : Aga mahiti asawa.

Me : Yala water purifying machin mhanata
Lady 2: Kalala ka aata dakhawa mhanun
lady 1 : Madam aamachi na entry hay aata

Me : Kay
Lady 2 : Aga Training - Entry mhana
Lady 1 : Han han Training aahe
Me : Kashyachi?
Lady 1: aamhala he sagala shikawanar... Jas Dustbin la English madhe kay mhanatat... aata ha Carpet - yala English madhe kay mhanatat asa.
Me : Tai, Dustbin la dustbin asach mhanat... Marathit tyla Kachara peti mhanatat. aani carpet la pan English madhe Carpet ch mhanat... Marathit kadachit galicha :)

We all three laughed on it. By that time my bottal was filled and I was on my way back to Desk.

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Leaving your first Love

Seriously leaving your first love is very difficult..... I remember my brother who used to tell me that Love your work not your Company.... and today I regret i loved both. It's becoming really difficult to leave this.

I think for any person attachment with first job is special...., first induction , first salary, first desk, team, meetings, client calls, parties, colleagues, deadlines, Go live, defect, appraisal, hike, rating, shift ,bench..events........all these things you come to know here.....

you spend more than half day with people around you, you sail in same ship, you meet for breakfast , for lunch, for eve snacks.... you share your day, talk about your personal issues. Gossip about office culture and people..... go to break out area...play some game.....get relaxed.....wait for Friday to come.... some how wake up in morning on Monday and reach office without interest and then again week flies....this goes on and on.... and one fine day there comes the day to leave.... You have to leave all people you met in this journey....we call it networking....need to leave this networking here....and move ahead...for new induction, new ppl....again same change...just characters changes.....and cycle continues.....

This is hard time for me to leave all this.... can't stop my eyes from getting wet.....

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Being on bench

From my engg days i heard about BENCH concept in IT firms.... one of my friend used to think that bench people are get different treatment...they are actully made to seat on BENCH without computer.... as if waiting line .... Then we knew that it's not so.... you get cubical...you get a Desk, your desktop....internet....Phone....and most importantly your salary is also same.... .everything is there.....only thing missing is work.....
When I knew about this i was like WOW..... then I came to know people who crib about Bench and I used to feel how stupid they are..... why can't they enjoy life....I was like hope i get bench in my job....but to my luck or unluck....from first day after training i was placed in Project....rather they were waiting for me to come out of training.... And then onwards.... I was billing to same client....getting something or other in project....got a chance to attend different trainings but not a single day with BENCH.... There were lows and High's ... But even in low...there were many things lined up.... and we knew that we have to do it today or tomorrow......
In high peak of project I used to feel why I can't be on Bench for some time... I need a break... i will do many useful things... I will have fun... Will read forward mails...will write blogs...and what not...just give me a break...
And today here I am....this is my 3rd day on bench.... and trust me it is very boring...you login to gmail...see there is only two mails....one is some ad and other one friend request on Hi5 or similar like that....No need of checking your Outbox....Login to Orkut....No scraps for you...ok for change change profile picture...done...now what...see if any upcoming bdays...ohhh yes there is one...drop a scrap... Now what.... In my company we don't have to report anyone ...when we are on bench,...There is something called Firm activity....doing other things for firm than proj...Checked with few people if I can participate in any... I got one hr activity to do ...You won't believe How happy I was.... being in Mumbai.... Away from Family...can't do much except sleeping by coming late or going early to flat....
So I am exploring all different thing one can do.... this is one of the attempt for same.... :)
Thanks for your time.....

Friday, October 17, 2008

Wedding bells

Hey there,

Since childhood i used to wonder how will i feel when i will get married to some one.....when i will know that this is person i am going to spend my rest of life with....he is one i was waiting till now...but you know now after knowing all that also I don't know how it feels... seriously...when i started to write blog on how it feels , i am not able to go further than it is mixed feeling. It is excitement as well as anxiousness..... specially in arrange marriages.

I feel that is all about acceptance, I wonder on this magic of arrange marriage.... You don't know a person...you meet him for some time...may be an hour or two ( In my case i got 2 ) and then you have to make decision if you want to spend your entire life with him....once you take this decision ...life becomes really easy... you don't have to judge that person any more neither see any negative qualities....all that you can see is your life partner.......Do we ever think why my mom or Dad is like this .... we can't find any bad qualities in our siblings....We just love our brothers and sisters because they are our bros and sis........ We never get a thought that my parents are not so good looking.........so this arrange marriage also is same........At least in my case it is like that...... Just an acceptance that matches are made in heaven.... and trusting that wonder makes you feel happy..........
For all those who are afraid of arrange marriage ( like I was ) .... don't worry.......... It works :)..........

Friday, June 27, 2008

My manager

hmmm..... posting something after long time.... was busy in so many things that didn't had time to sit and write something.....many things happened in life though, which deserves to be posted.
So I will start with latest one and then will try to update with whatever i can recall, generally I have read many forward emails with jokes made on proj managers. How they are fool or make you work like hell or how they are bad to make ur life miserable, but here I am going to share very different experience. this week is my last week in US. now time for back to pavilion, so was trying to learn as much as can, finish ending tasks and maintain good repo at client side.

My manager and client are happy with my work and I gained lot of trust in these three months, believe me , some one trust you so much gives very nice feeling. You feel so good about yourself. So i am living in that feeling. All this was possible with support of my manager. In these three months many people helped me a lot. Starting from Mumbai my manager was ready to help me in all ways he could. It continued at Cincy office also, I got such a wonderful manager who was supporting and grooming me.

I admire my manager a lot, he is very dynamic person. one will get 100 things to learn from him, always at high energy level. My client trust him so much that for any small decision he needs him. He is so much involved in all technical and business activities that everyone needs his help to move further, if you have a prob then he will have a solution for it.
Apart from proj also is is very interesting person, you be with him for 30 mins for lunch and you will get loads of new information ( God knows from where he got all that info)

So such a cool manager of mine taught me many things in direct and indirect way, and best part happened Yday, when before leaving he gave me a gift :). I was so happy to get that from him, he said it's his wife who sent that for me ( We met in NY once). Actually that was such a small thing for him, he gave it very casually but I was on 7th sky.

so moral of story some managers are really very nice, and i am lucky one to get one of them :)

At client side i got so many managers, one technical lead, other engagement lead, over all lead.
Recently one more lead joined proj two weeks back. She is also over all impressive, very fast in grasping and smart in acting. as she was flying to her home this week and won't be seeing me again as she is on vacation for next week i was saying her bye, and she hugged me ....saying all the best. I felt as if she is my old friend. it was such a nice feeling :) and it proved again that I got very nice managers. who treat me like kid and help in all ways, supports and appreciate my work too.

Thursday, May 15, 2008

Q&A

I am reading this Q&A book these days, this is something different i am reading, summary of book is something like
Framing the story is Ram's greatest triumph: he participated in an Indian TV quiz show, Who Will Win a Billion ? (also known as W3B) -- and, despite being an uneducated waiter, became the first contestant to answer all twelve questions correctly and take the prize. This book tells about how he knew all 12 answers correctly, which was difficult for a professor to answer. This book talks about all sorts of problems Indian poor or orphan can face, he shares innocence of a kid, simple day to day routine etc.
I liked this book very much because of some different reasons, may be I got many lessons from this one, main message I learned was nothing is useless in life, you don't know how much a bad lesson will going to help you in future. All happens for a good cause, you don't know which person, which situation will help you in life and will take you to next level.
Just enjoy your today and go ahead. Nothing is impossible or with any one's copy right over it. you can do the same just have courage. Not sure if others will like this book or not, but i liked it.

Sunday, April 20, 2008

Wait & Watch

IF you are not sure about something and don't want to get caught in any embarracing situation then simple formula to apply is wait & Watch. I am doing this from last two weeks, from day my journey to US started, and trust me it works :)
Right from what to do after entering in internation airport, where to go what to do just be observative --> wait and watch. In flight there were many things i just followed by seeing other people. How to open cabin drawer, how to see TV provided to you. How to switch Off light on your top, how to eat food provided to you, how to fill I94, where to go for immigration. where to go for security check in. All Do's and don'ts
In office or in apartment also there are many things different than India. I was not getting where and how to drink water. there was a funny tab for drinking water and you don't need glass to drink water from it. I saw my colleague drinking water from it and got how to drink. Then slowly I discovered how these people prepare tea or coffee.
My Client arranged for a Welcome lunch for me. We went to a Mexican Hotel. I am still wondering though it's very cold here why people drink water from glass with full of Ice. So I didn't had option to order food what others are ordering as except one all were Non Vegetarian people, So I asked waitress which is Veg food available. Among two options I cleared her that by Veg I mean No egg, no meat, no fish. She said yes those two choices serves as my food. So i ordered one of them. After some time she came up with one plate with some sabji kinda thing then one bowl with salad. There were some Hot pots with our Rumai roti kind of thing. one bowl with kind of coffee beans, i was not sure how to eat all that .... so again simple formula- Wait and watch, I kept drinking iced water for two Min's, then few other ppl also got same kind of setup. they took rumai roti then spread sabji in it added some salad, some of those beans then rolled it and started eating, so i knew how to eat that and followed same :). There are many such things which i am learning with this funda.